“Being curious as a child keeps you going. It makes you more of a man.”

Fatherhood is a mixture of excitement, joy, and fear. It can be fun, but it can also involve a lot of hard work. You are responsible for another human being and must try to teach them how to do things as a family as well as what is right and wrong. I would say that most dads feel this way about it. Even if you love being a dad and think it’s the best job in the world, there are definitely some challenges to it. There are so many things to learn about being a parent, and it can be hard to understand what it means to be a parent.

I know that this might sound like it’s addressed to all fathers, but it’s for all dads who are reading this article. Being a dad is different for everyone. You have to figure out what works for you. While we all have our own unique experiences, there are some things we can all think about when it comes to being a dad. In this article, we talk about the journey of fatherhood and how it can be viewed from a child’s perspective.

About Noah

Noah is a film scriptwriter and actor. He lives in Topeka, Kansas, despite the whole family living in Chicago. He was mostly raised by his mother because the father was not always around. Being curious and asking a lot of questions to his mother has kept him going and made him more of a man. Noah almost became a father last year.

The four corners of fatherhood

The four corners of fatherhood are the basic and essential components of becoming a good father. The area that most people think about when they think about fatherhood is the biological or biological fathers. However, there are also other corners of fatherhood that are important too. 

These four corners are:

• Mentality
• Spirituality
• Physicality 
• Finances

Mentality–  The father’s mentality is to always consider the interests of his child, to understand the child, communicate with the child in time, and make the child more confident. The positive mentality of a father is to actively promote the healthy growth of their children because they know that only when children grow up can they have a better family environment.

Spirituality– The Father’s spirituality should take you to the heart of God, so you can see where your problems begin and come close to God. You will also understand that what has tested you in this life is already a part of God’s love for you. 

Physicality– A dad’s physical strength isn’t just important for tools, but also for a child’s sense of security. In fact, researchers found that when reading bedtime stories to a child, a father’s physical presence was the single biggest factor in determining the child’s emotional health score.

Finances– Fathers are the primary, or only, financial influence for about two-thirds of U.S. children. As a result, fathers can leave a lasting mark on their kids’ financial behavior. They play an important, often underappreciated role in their children’s financial well-being. The first step to becoming a better dad is to become a better communicator. Learn why you should talk to your kids about finances.

Forgiveness and understanding

Forgiving your father is the process of coming to peace with your father and forgiving him for the hurtful actions he’s committed throughout your life. Although it may seem like a simple and logical step, it’s not always easy to forgive your father. In fact, it can be one of the most difficult things you’ll ever do. But it’s worth it.

If you don’t forgive and let go of the anger and frustration you’ve felt and the hurts your father has caused, you’ll continue to live your life in a state of conflict and chaos. You’ll spend your days spinning your wheels and your nights feeling angry and resentful. And that’s no way to live. Noah explains that forgiving his father took off a lot of weight and was able to focus on greater things.

 

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The influence of fathers in their children’s lives cannot be understated. While mothers play a vital role in child rearing, research and societal experiences have shown that the involvement of fathers is equally crucial for the holistic development of children. In this article, we delve into the reasons why the role of fathers is critical and explore the long-lasting impact they have on their children’s lives.

 

1. Positive Male Role Models:

Fathers serve as the primary male role models for their children, particularly for their sons. Through their words and actions, fathers teach important lessons about responsibility, integrity, and respect. They demonstrate the qualities of a good man, helping their children develop a healthy understanding of masculinity and positive relationships.

 

2. Emotional Development and Well-being:

Fathers play a unique role in their children’s emotional development. Research suggests that children with involved fathers have higher emotional intelligence, better self-esteem, and greater social competence. Fathers provide a different perspective and style of nurturing, offering a balance between support and encouragement while challenging their children to grow and face life’s obstacles.

 

3. Cognitive and Academic Achievement:

A father’s involvement has a significant impact on a child’s cognitive and academic development. Fathers who engage in educational activities with their children, such as reading, problem-solving, and discussing ideas, foster a love for learning. Children with involved fathers tend to have higher IQ scores, better linguistic abilities, improved academic performance, and an increased likelihood of pursuing higher education.

 

4. Enhanced Social Skills and Relationships:

Fathers contribute to their children’s social skills and the development of healthy relationships. By providing guidance, modeling empathy, and teaching effective communication, fathers equip their children with essential social skills. These skills enable children to navigate friendships, resolve conflicts, and develop meaningful connections throughout their lives.

 

5. Reduced Risky Behaviors:

The presence of an involved father can significantly decrease the likelihood of children engaging in risky behaviors. Research indicates that children with supportive and engaged fathers are less prone to substance abuse, delinquency, early sexual activity, and other risky behaviors. Fathers who establish clear boundaries, communicate expectations, and provide guidance act as a protective factor against negative influences.

 

6. Self-Identity and Gender Roles:

Fathers play a crucial role in shaping their children’s self-identity and understanding of gender roles. By modeling gender equality, treating their partners with respect, and encouraging their children to pursue their passions, fathers break down stereotypes and provide a more inclusive worldview. They teach their children that both men and women can achieve their goals and contribute equally to society.

 

7. Long-Term Impact on Adult Life:

The involvement of fathers during childhood has lasting effects on their children’s lives. Individuals who had supportive and nurturing fathers tend to have better mental health, stronger interpersonal relationships, and greater overall life satisfaction in adulthood. The positive influence of fathers carries into their children’s own parenting practices, creating a generational cycle of engaged and involved fatherhood.

 

Conclusion:

The role of fathers in their children’s lives is not only important but critical for their overall well-being and future success. Fathers contribute to the emotional, cognitive, and social development of their children, shaping their identities, and providing a foundation for their future relationships. Society must recognize and support fathers in their roles, encouraging them to actively engage, nurture, and guide their children. By doing so, we build stronger families, stronger communities, and a brighter future for generations to come.

 

There were more shootings in Chicago over the weekend. The irony of these shootings, in which 52 were shot and 5 died (Chicago Sun-Times Wire, 6/21/21), is the weekend itself….Father’s Day weekend.

Some sociologists note that what we’re seeing in large part is quite often the result of fatherlessness in America.

“The best way to be a good father is to be a good man.”

Fatherhood is an art. It’s not something that comes naturally; you have to work at it. It’s a skill that needs to be learned and perfected, just like any other skill or profession. The first thing you need to understand is that you’re not perfect. You’ll make mistakes along the way, but don’t let that discourage you from trying again tomorrow. Every father makes mistakes, and every child forgives his father for what he did wrong because, in their eyes, there are no mistakes; only lessons learned together through love, trust, and respect for each other.

It all starts with a strong foundation built on unconditional love, understanding, and respect for both yourself and your children. When this foundation is strong enough, it will withstand any storm life throws at it no matter how much rain falls or how strong the wind blows over it because when those storms come, they’ll teach us how much we can take before breaking down under pressure. After all, we’re never going to give up on our dreams as fathers or as men until we die.

What is fatherhood?

 

A father can be described as the most crucial person to a child. He is someone who provides love, care, protection, and guidance to his children. A father should provide financial support to his children and give them emotional support by being there for them whenever they need him. He should be able to provide them with advice when they need it most, especially when they are going through difficult times in their lives.

 

In order for fathers to provide financial support for their children, it does not necessarily mean that he has to offer money every time their kids ask for it. This can be done by helping them choose their career paths so that they will be able to earn enough money for themselves once they start working after college or high school graduation. On top of this, he should also teach them how to manage their finances wisely, budget their earnings properly, and avoid getting into debt over time.

The qualities of a good father

 

Fatherhood isn’t easy. Your kids will test your patience, and you’ll probably make some mistakes along the way. But if you’re a good dad, chances are your kid will turn out just fine.

 

A good father puts his family and children before himself. He is the head of the household. A good father will be there to support and guide his children, and he will teach them right from wrong. He will help them through their tough times, show them how to do things right, and make sacrifices when necessary.

 

A good father teaches his children by example. He shows them what it means to be a man by living a life of integrity, honesty, responsibility, and hard work. A good father doesn’t get frustrated or angry when things don’t go as planned or when his kids make mistakes; he stays calm and works through problems with reason and logic.

 

A good father knows how to forgive those who have wronged him and those who have wronged those closest to him (his wife/partner, children). A good father does not hold grudges against those who have hurt him or others because holding onto anger only hurts us more than anyone else could ever hurt us in the first place. He loves unconditionally without expecting anything in return from his children except for their love, which he already has from them anyway because he’s their dad!

How mental health is affecting fathers

Mental health issues are common in the U.S., but they can be particularly challenging for men because society doesn’t often encourage them to seek treatment. Men are also more likely than women to think they’re fine even when they’re not, which means they might not recognize how their mental health affects their children until it’s too late for both parties.

 

There is a stigma that if you see a therapist, there is something wrong with you. Fathers are often stigmatized for seeking mental health treatment, either by their families or the community. People tend to view men who seek mental health treatment differently than women who seek treatment. In particular, people tend to think less of men who seek out therapy than women. However, men need to seek mental health treatment due to the challenges every day for their families.

 

Watch the full episode with Jamel Moore on YouTube https://youtu.be/NlNcFPNZkGo

 

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